Friday, 30 October 2015

THE KIND OF GUY I WANT......Lizzy Peters


Lol, when I read this stuff, i couldn't stop laughing at the stupidity of the girl and seriously she's not the only one who thinks and imagines this 'kind' of guy. Come to think of it, Is this kind of guy really existing? I can even laugh hard at the small way she has written 'god fearing'.
Auntie, it is good to have speculations but you don't have to be this rigid besides you got to figure out what you really want from what you really need in a relationship! Do you need a playboy or a husband? Because playboys mostly are the ones who have these qualities and they aren't even ready for marriage yet because they know girls like you are competitive over them.So before you REALLY decide what kind of guy you need, decide what you really need first.It is a life time commitment not a fashion audition. Measuring guys like you weigh chickens in market won't help you. Don't forget to share! Thanks..

Friday, 23 October 2015

THE SPENDING THEORIES IN A RELATIONSHIP: A PERSPECTIVE FOR UNCLE JACK, AWON BODA WA



Having discussed the perspective for Auntie Jil, by my instinct, I have to discuss the perspective for Uncle Jack, awon bodawa.

THEORY ONE:MAKE SURE YOU ARE INDEPENDENT-Uncle,don’t expect a girl who needs to be taken care of to take you as a man if you yourself still look up to mommy and daddy for food allowance. Part of being a man is the ability to stand on your own with little or financial support from your parent or family members. Like I said, get a job! Utilize your God-given potentials. If you know you are still feeding from hand to mouth,leave that girl alone.Don’t expect she will be nice and believe you can take care of her if you can’t dismissively afford N500 credit card monthly.

THEORY TWO:ACKNOWLEDGE AND CARRY OUT YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES FINANCIALLY-You see, we girls have this ego like you too.Sometimes,we might not want to look desperate to you even if we badly need something.As a man,you don’t wait till she crawls on her knees before you give her what she wants.Be responsible by taking care of your woman.If other men didn’t take care of their women,would you be mesmerized by their outlook and beauty? Obe to dun, owo lo paa…

THEORY THREE: LEAVE A GAP BETWEEN YOUR ROLES IN YOUR CHILDHOOD FAMILY AND PERSONAL FAMILY: What real women love most is to know that our men value family hood more than anything.We aren’t saying you shouldn’t spend for your family members.No! But draw a line.Those family members that remember you ONLY when they are in trouble,let them know you too will be in trouble if you don’t meet some financial responsibilities at home.Don’t try to always impress your family members.Don’t buy 50 yards aso-ebi for all the family members when your wife is expecting you to drop money for soup. Okay when you come back from the atenu, she will laugh with you abi?.For God’s sakes, if you are so glued to unnecessarily impressing your family members,why didn’t you marry your sister or aunt?Learn to draw the line. Don’t put Oloriebi’s 70th birthday party above your child’s school fees.A word is enough for the wise Bobo..... to be continued! Don't forget to register for free on www.onlinemoviemart.com/amdas/pages/register.php

Dear Mother In-Law, Let Your Son's Wife Rule Her Home

You see, this is a topic most Nigerians probably find trivial. But  we as a people often forget that mother in-laws are every where. If...