I am tired. I am tired of seeing "men" as only the problem in a relationship. It is okay to fight for girls against rape, assault, battery and the rest but please don't scare girls away from marriage.
If your marriage didn't work, it doesn't mean other people's marriages won't work. Leave ladies who have decided to be a stay-at-home mom alone, leave ladies who have decided to have a joint account with their husband alone, leave ladies who have decided to kneel while serving their husband's food alone. Leave those who can't take a decision without their husband alone. Please, leave them alone.
Some ladies have decided to be "submissive", leave them alone. Don't go about on social media trying to paint men as the only problems in marriage. Stop campaign against decent respect in marriage. Stop using the fight against rape, assault, battery and domestic violence as a weapon for women to deny their husbands sex.
Men too are abused in marriage. Men too suffer in marriages. Men too are assaulted and raped in marriages. You don't hear this because you have structured your mind to believe that only women suffer these things.
These men keep silent because the society expects them to "man" up always. To be strong even when they are weak. To show fierce even when all they wanna do is lean on a shoulder.
And just because your marriage didn't work doesn't mean you should discourage other women from going into marriage. Leave women who have decided to be married alone.
Please!
