Having discussed the perspective for Auntie Jil, by my
instinct, I have to discuss the perspective for Uncle Jack, awon bodawa.
THEORY ONE:MAKE SURE YOU ARE
INDEPENDENT-Uncle,don’t expect a girl who needs to be taken care of to take you
as a man if you yourself still look up to mommy and daddy for food allowance.
Part of being a man is the ability to stand on your own with little or
financial support from your parent or family members. Like I said, get a job!
Utilize your God-given potentials. If you know you are still feeding from hand
to mouth,leave that girl alone.Don’t expect she will be nice and believe you
can take care of her if you can’t dismissively afford N500 credit card monthly.
THEORY TWO:ACKNOWLEDGE AND CARRY
OUT YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES FINANCIALLY-You see, we girls have this ego like you
too.Sometimes,we might not want to look desperate to you even if we badly need something.As
a man,you don’t wait till she crawls on her knees before you give her what she
wants.Be responsible by taking care of your woman.If other men didn’t take care
of their women,would you be mesmerized by their outlook and beauty? Obe to dun,
owo lo paa…
THEORY THREE: LEAVE A GAP BETWEEN
YOUR ROLES IN YOUR CHILDHOOD FAMILY AND PERSONAL FAMILY: What real women love
most is to know that our men value family hood more than anything.We aren’t
saying you shouldn’t spend for your family members.No! But draw a line.Those
family members that remember you ONLY when they are in trouble,let them know
you too will be in trouble if you don’t meet some financial responsibilities at
home.Don’t try to always impress your family members.Don’t buy 50 yards
aso-ebi for all the family members when your wife is expecting you to drop
money for soup. Okay when you come back from the atenu, she will laugh with you
abi?.For God’s sakes, if you are so glued to unnecessarily impressing your
family members,why didn’t you marry your sister or aunt?Learn to draw the
line. Don’t put Oloriebi’s 70th birthday party above your child’s
school fees.A word is enough for the wise Bobo..... to be continued! Don't forget to register for free on www.onlinemoviemart.com/amdas/pages/register.php
My candid comment, when It comes to some matters the Ladies reminds us that in some part of the world this is how things are done and in some other matters they seem to forget that the other part of the world even exists. I am not saying it is wrong or bad..what am saying is that a relationship can only survive if everyone involved in it plays it with "Simple Common Sense"
ReplyDeleteThank you Ope, the truth is simply what you have said. Commonsense is what is simply needed to drive a relationship.
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